Haiti: Giving girls a way out

Sherli, 20, an only child, lost both her parents in the earthquake. "I found a tent in a camp close to the destroyed presidential palace," Sherli recalls. "At the beginning there was nothing – no water, no food. I had sex with men to survive." A month after the earthquake, Sherli was raped. "A man came into my tent late at night and asked if he could shelter from the rain," she says. "When I said no, he got angry. He took out a gun then kicked me repeatedly in the stomach. He said he would kill me if I made a noise. Then I was raped. I bled for 22 days." Sherli found out about Kofaviv, the women's support group, when she sought help at a mobile medical clinic. Kofaviv accompanied her to the police, where she filed a report about the attack. "The police said: 'When you catch the gangster who raped you, call us,'" she says. Kofaviv found Sherli a room in a safe house. "They looked after me like a daughter," she says. "In the self-help groups I went to, I talked to other girls about their experiences. I realised that I was not alone. Many had lost their families in the earthquake. "A lot of them were using sex to survive and would sleep with a man for a plate of spaghetti." Sherli is now helping Kofaviv co-ordinate a support group for teenage sex workers living in the camps. "We talk about the risks of unsafe sex. I share my own example and how I got out of prostitution," she says. "At Kofaviv, they can attend courses, such as sewing, jewellery-making and computer classes. This gives them a skill and more choices about how to survive. "Supporting them, I have become strong again."